Ok here are my questions, if you don't feel comfortable answering them, you don't have to (of course!) There are just questions that may have been answered but I haven't kept up-to-date with every post.
Desktop, do you have any children? How did you meet your husband?
Madmen, are you an old user under a different name?
DT crossword, how old are you? Do you work? What do/did you do for a living?
That's all I can think of for now. Post your questions to other ABers.
And make Facebook profiles pretending to be your partner....
And say they know where you live....
And say they can hack into your email and social networking accounts...
And send you emails, pretending to be from someone else, saying they know what school your children go to....
I had my twitter weirdo send me birthday and christmas cards, it's still just the same thing as a weirdo latching onto you in real life, I really can't see the huge drama.