Bear with me - this is a bit long, but genuine. I'm male, and I have a female friend who I see a lot of. We are both separated. She's made it clear she doesn't want a relationship with anyone, but we see each other once/twice a week, certainly every weekend. We go out together, cook for each other, and have even talked about going away on holiday together. We kiss each other goodnight, and she has taken to kissing me on the lips rather than the cheek. I guess anyone seeing our relationship would probably assume we were an item, but we're not. But I have to admit that this does seem somewhat more than a normal platonic relationship between a man and a woman. I'd like to know what others think, as I am getting a little confused.
Only me again, so to speak! Thanks again for further replies. In fact this is something we have discussed a couple of times, which is when she said that she was not looking for a sexual/romantic relationship. She has been very clear about that, yet as you can see from the above her behaviour is, as robber1 says, far beyond platonic. I will try and keep you posted as to what happens, but this could take a while to work out!!