I'm not surprised you are angry. The saying 'you can choose your friends, not your family' is one I use myself. I have lots of relatives, most of which are wonderful people - but a couple of them could disappear off the face of the earth and I wouldn't be concerned (in fact, I would probably throw a party and celebrate!) I have deliberately not let them know my new address and it should be down to me, and me only, if I ever feel the need to tell them....as if that's ever gonna happen! I really sympathise and hope you complain strongly. You could go to the C.A.B. and speak to them in confidence and get advice. Also, some solicitors offer an hour, one to one, for �20 (approx) then after that hour you can decide whether it is worth pursuing or not. Hope this helps, good luck.