Well, to maintain my 30 something crazycatlady status:
- We have cuddles every night when I get in, usually after she was come to meet me walking up the road to home meowing her head off.
- I often sit wrapped up in throws to keep warm so I can keep the window open for her to come in and out.
- She has her own bed with all kinds of comfy stuff on it even though she prefers to sleep on the cat bed I make her up on the sofa every night or me.
- I didn't disown her when I woke up to a dead magpie in my lap.
There is more...there is no hope...