Past life sins coming back to haunt us?

[truth-seeker]

I generally seem to meet people, get on with them & then they turn on me. I don't know why. I have racked my brain, and no-one seems to be able to give me a reasonable answer that would explain why, in almost every job, school, group whatever, I have eventually been disliked by most people there. This is not in my head. People have literally run away from me, they have lied about me, been cruel to me, they have avoided me, sabotage, etc. I go out of my way to be nice to people but they always seem to think I am 'up to something' & treat me like the scapegoat & the one everyone can safely be mean to without any comeback.
I am worried I have mild aspergers or something as it would explain why people are not comfortable around me. I am sometimes tactless & often feel I'm on a 'different wavelength'.
Example -I did work exp & the boss offered me a job - then called my tutor and told them I had a bad vibe! Every job, everyone has just decided I am bad news.
I do have some friend and generally sociable & have a laugh with people - I have them in stitches - I'm intelligent, multi-talented, pretty, vibrant etc, but hardly anyone ever calls me.
A psychic friend told me it was because in a past life I had been the scapegoat & the one who always got the blame & subconsciously people can sense that. I am certainly no pushover & speak my mind when necessary, but I never get any sympathy when I am being singled out - peope just think either so what or trhat I deserve it. Its like they 'sense' something and think I've brought it on myself.

I don't mind if I have something wrong, but when you know you haven't or at least not that you know of - it hurts!

What do you think? What can I do? I can't spend the rest of my life being treated like this - particularly if is not really my fault - I mean how can I change a past life?

Thank You

[Bob A Job]

I dont believe in past lives, and i dont think thats your problem.
Many people i know claim that everyone backstabs them, and talks about them behind their backs. When looking into the situation further, you generally discover that these people only socialise with idiots and untrustworthy people.
Its a bit like the girl who says, i can never find a man that wants a serious relationship, but only ever looks for mr right in nightclubs and bars, where she will never find a man you will settle down.

I would suggest not worrying so much, you seem like a genuine person, and eventually everything will work out fine.

[Ward-Minter]

interesting thread.

It sounds like there is something idiosyncratic to you that people simply do not like. In my experience it is usually something that makes people feel "you are up your own a55" if you have heard that saying. Snobbery is the biggest instant turn off.

Alas, if you genuinely believe you are not it may be jealousy from others. Are you a flirt maybe?

The fact you have friends is a good thing which means you are not a bad person. Perhaps you are a little paranoid and this is the way of life. Christ some people despise me, just for being me.

You sound like a decent lass to me. Avoid all this black magic mumbo jumbo. Friend or not, pyschics prey on the weak, the insecurities of others. That's why it's a billion dollar industry.

I hope the future brings happiness, life is tough. Trust me.

[Ethmer]

Most probably it is because you happen to be associating with certain types of people who sense things about you that cause them to feel inferior. This doesn't necessarily mean anything is wrong with you but rather that your existence threatens something in them.

It is possible that your past life(s) have caused you to associate with these types of people currently.

i wouldn't worry about it. i think you will eventually develop greater relationships with people and associates who are better able to accept you as you are.

[keezin]

perhaps its becuase you are too whiny.