Someone Cheer Me Up Please :/

[dizmouk2009]

Hey, I'm on a real downer today, anyone got any words of wisdom or anything amusing to tell me :(

[ummmm]

That's pretty crap, Diz. How many times did he phone you last week?

[dizmouk2009]

Plenty, I've turned my phone off, he can botox now :/

[dizmouk2009]

I'm so bloody fed up now, I've just been told I can get free training, if I had been offered this years ago I would of had a job and been able to support my wife. Useless *******

[ummmm]

It's still good news about the free training though x

[EvianBaby]

I detest people saying 'there's always someone worse off than you'. That is probably true in most cases but it doesn't mean your problems are any less significant to you. It doesn't help in the slightest. In fact it makes it worse. Can we assume none of you have ever felt down about something?

And saying that to someone with depressions is especially pointless and shows an ignorance about that illness.

Diz, I hope you start to turn the corner soon.

[ummmm]

Nicely said, Evian.

To me it's on a par with saying 'pull yourself together' or 'get a grip'

[wolf63]

or "cheer up it may never happen"

[EvianBaby]

Exactly. It only makes me want to punch the people that say that to me ;)

[TWR]

Hi Diz,
Hope you are ok? Just a little bit of advice to you if I can, without going into detail I had a problem a few years ago & it was tearing me apart, my family / friends try to advise me, I would not take heed, I knew what the problem was & did not know which way to go, a music keyboard which i love and play solved the problem??? I had to sell it to try and keep up with my problem way of life, that was it, I told the problem to get the feck out of my life, I had a flat which the problem did not share but did have some item there, I gathered them all up put them in a bag told the problem to feck off & never return or call or contact me, it was like taking a load off my shoulders believe me, my life became good, my family stood by me, as they knew the person that was doing these stupid silly things was not me, I am now fine, know where I'm going ( maybe not on here with the answers I give) Diz, your S0-CALLED friends may disown you, but take it from me, Friends!!!!! you do not know what goes on behind closed doors!! You may know what I mean? but the effort my friend, but the pub is not the answer.