If you dont have sex with your husband do you assume that he is taking care of things himself ??

[happyone2]

Hi.......... i was wondering, if a couple dont have much of a sex life or none at all.............does this mean that neither of the couple pleasure them selves .....Do both assume that the other is or isnt on their own ( or presumably with somebody else )

I ask, because a friend of mine makes love to his girlfriend once every couple of months and assumes she knows that he does it alone ........... i didnt know if that assumption could be taken as read.

[jackthehat]

I suspect that's a concept familiar to many on here....:op

[Ankou]

posting on answerbank is the preserve of the sexually fustrated Salads Chef.

[snags]

''is the preserve''

Back on the Jam tip eh... thought we'd done that yesterday over in Food & Drink...

[Ankou]

with cream pie

[piggynose]

is this appropiate?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nkqfa-kaRFM

[BagPussAA]

It is absolute rubbish to say that if a woman is in a loving and satisfying relationship then she will not masturbate. It depends entirely on her sex drive. I have a very high sex drive so even tho I am in a very healthy and satisfying relationship with Mr B, I still very much enjoy having a bit of a play on my own. I get a different type of orgasm when I masterbate than when we make love or have sex and I enjoy it. Everyone does it and it annoys me that women are made to feel like they should not enjoy their own bodies in this way.

[happyone2]

None of you have answered my orginal question...............do you know if and when your partner masturbates on his/her own without you................ and how do you feel about this ??