When Lemuel wrote Proverbs 31 he was extolling the role of women.
Women work hard, doing many different jobs at the same time. Can men say the same?
More often than not women are multi-taskers - men are not!
They are wives, mothers, nurses, teachers, cooks, cleaners, accountants, laundry works, etc. etc. All these jobs are carried out in the family.
Who is it that put women down? Men. They degrade women by their actions and by their attitude to women. In the Asian countries women have no place, even down to the fact they will kill or abandon their baby girls.
Women were protected under the Law. For example,
Exodus 21:22, 23 is in a part of the Mosaic law dealing with compensation for injuries. As you read next versesd, the basic principle was “eye for eye, tooth for tooth.” But what was to be done if a pregnant woman was injured?
There could be a number of outcomes of the injury. With regard to the woman, she might be hurt, even crippled, but not fatally. Or the damage might have caused her death. Then the developing child or children in her womb. If her pregnancy was quite advanced, the blow or shock might bring on early labour so that she prematurely delivered a live baby. Or, the hurt to the mother might cause an abortion, a destruction of the life developing in her womb. Plainly, what the Law said about damage to a pregnant woman had to cover a range of possibilities.
But at the end of the day, you read what you want to believe.
As for me, I have studied the Bible over a good many years and attend a Theocractic School weekly.