Words

[ilovemarkb]

Cant think of appropriate words to write in a card for a terminally ill friend other than thinking of you any ideas please (shes not religious)

[flump1]

Maybe the offer of an ear if she ever wants to talk something over or discuss her illness ?

[murraymints]

Thinking of you at this time.....

[woofgang]

Put your mobile number, say call me any time and mean it.

[arwyn]

A terminally ill Aunt got sick of people saying "How are you"....... she'd reply "dyeing".......
I would ask "How are you today".......... She loved that. When I left I'd say "I hope you have many more"......... That also went down well.

[anneasquith]

I think of you often.

[mallyh]

if you need a shoulder call me anytime

[Tilly2]

There's nothing I can say to help you but I can listen, if you want me to.

[ilovemarkb]

thanks guys very helpful xxx

[pixie373]

Yes, and offer support to her family too, especially if she has children. I have a friend with only weeks left and she is most worried about how her children will cope. I've told her they are welcome round ours any time and she knows i mean it. She said that was a huge relief.

[jacklee]

my son's beagle has just had 5 puppies.
Out of the blue, a lady phoned to say she owned a beagle but had never handled a pup.
She is terminally ill but would love to come and cuddle the pups.
Come by all means, my son and his wife said - and the lady came and was able to fulfil a great wish.
Not a reply to your post but thought you would appreciate this touching true story

[ilovemarkb]

thanks again guys very touching xxx

[flicrat]

Maybe write about good times you've had with her and thank her for being such a helpful supportive friend. I did this for my friend and reminded her of the excitement in our house when "Auntie - " was coming. I should like to think I had been appreciated if I was in that situation.