Son in a similar situation to you.
We have here something called "Single Point of Access", where you can self refer. Have you anything like that in your area?
Also, Relate is helping him quite a bit.
Yes Dizmo, caused be a relationship problem. A referral to them, and a chat, and they can refer to someone appropriate.
They have done it for my lad. He is now on the CBT waiting list.
ferlew: It isn't because of a relationship issue, the relationship issue just brought it out more. I'm already on the right path it's just taking a long time. I can't speed up the process any quicker so I've just got to try and 'hold in there'.