Probably a good idea to have Stag/Hen nights in advance.The Bitch Queen I married wasn't happy when half the male guests turned up with hangovers and battle scars, still that was what usually happened on a Friday night in Mansfield and and a brawl in the Old Eclipse
I don't like hen dos but for one I was involved in I bribed my friend's gorgeous son to dress up as the Milk Tray man,....arrive half way through... passionately kiss the bride to be for a very long time and depart leaving the chocolates and a very woozey hen.....and still no-one knows who did it.
A good way for a young lad to make some extra cash....and keep his clothes on.....☻