I'm so stupid today. 3 more if you can help ...12A:Up out of bed but not here, so I'm told (6) ?W?I?H; 2D: Hug lovelorn idiot in close (6)E???E?; 9A: Drain Scotch? Feel benefit mostly (8) E???E?L?
Thank you so much emeritus, dannyk13, shaneystar2 and scorpiojo (for the second time today!) I'm sure you are all right. "enfold" means I've got something else wrong but I'll figure it out!