Done Bernie - told them straight - no more silly o'clock starts except when I have monthly reports to do (so much easier when it's quiet), no more work going to be taken home. They want overtime doing then they pay me for it.
Weren't they just. Must admit, since I stopped doing it I don't get chest pains - doc said it was stress all along, whilst I thought I was heading for heart trouble (family history). Still the intended is happier now (and she's stopped nagging lol)