"The reason that you pour boiling water over the tea bag before adding milk is that the tea starts to brew with boiling water, not cold milk."
Ah, you're making in a cup, not a teapot are you? I'm certain what Andrew Michell would have to say about that :)
I'm only passing on what is reported to me about tea-habits of the Victorians really - I think Tea is one of those things where people want to be sophisticated about it, but actually just latch on to whatever they have to hand which can associate it with class or complexity.
Not that I'm any different mind. There has to be a reason that I looked up that steeping article! :)
"But some of my American friends make tea by putting a tea bag in a mug, pouring cold water into the mug and then putting it into a microwave oven for 2-3 minutes. Peasants, every one of them."
Absolutely, they Queen wouldn't have those colonial commoners back if they begged!
In India (if I remember correct) my friend was served his tea with condensed milk. He said it was the best thing that ever happened to him - if not his waistline!