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[lilacben]

Sqad...this Is Not A Very Good Question But One I Would Like To Know...........follow on from first post.


Just to let you know I have seen my friend today. And like others had said to me words came easily. She looked so frail and steroids has made her look like everyone does when on them at such a high dose. But it was still my dear friend. But we chatted and laughed about things but no talk of the big C. No talk of goodbyes. When her husband took her back to their daughters, whom they are staying with for a couple of days. We hugged and told each other we loved them. Tears where close but no goodbyes.. . Thankyou all for your help xx Brenda

[sandyRoe]

That's as nice a 'thank you' as I've ever seen here on AB.

[gness]

Seconded, Sandy......

Lilac....I was in your position five years ago...I miss my friend so much but she made me promise two things....to live my life for her too...doing things we said we would do together......and to wear red killer heels to her funeral.... broke my heart but I did it....

Thoughts with you.....xxx

[Sqad]

Thanks, lilac.......I am not very good at the emotional stuff, never have been and made it my business never to get involved.
So this may sound a bit.........flat..............I don't mean it to be.

Others will say it better than me......but I am glad that i helped in a small way and thank you for your comments.