i couldnt care less.
I am quite strong - i have pcos and it has given me an excess of testosterone - plus all my family have a kind of 'natural strength' of build if you get me, meaning I am pretty strong and have quite defined and solid muscles considering i do no weightlifting whatsoever ... i dont fancy muscular men, so i am sure i have on occasion been as strong as, if not stronger than someone i am dating - but i dont really see how it matters to be honest - i wouldnt care if they were scrawny etc if i loved them.
(i am no fatima whitbread, by the way, haha )