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Ex Girlfriend Will Not Return Car
I'm in a bit of a pickle !
my ex is refusing to return my car,the car is registered in her name,she has the only key,she is saying the car is legally hers which we both know isn't the case.we didn't sign any agreement to say ownership has transferred to her.
i swapped my original car for the car in question,I don't have a receipt but have a few ebay emails leading up to the transaction saying we are both happy to swap,I have asked the fella for a receipt,keeps saying he has sent 3 but nothing has arrived.would the emails be enough proof?
I have started a letter asking for the car,keys and docs and an offer of a goodwill gesture (£500) and suggesting it would be cheaper to go to court for me,but more expensive for her.I have set out the letter to try and adhere to the pre-action protocols or practice direction.I really dont want to go to court but I think its my only option.I am worried she will sell the car in the meantime,Then what?
my ex is refusing to return my car,the car is registered in her name,she has the only key,she is saying the car is legally hers which we both know isn't the case.we didn't sign any agreement to say ownership has transferred to her.
i swapped my original car for the car in question,I don't have a receipt but have a few ebay emails leading up to the transaction saying we are both happy to swap,I have asked the fella for a receipt,keeps saying he has sent 3 but nothing has arrived.would the emails be enough proof?
I have started a letter asking for the car,keys and docs and an offer of a goodwill gesture (£500) and suggesting it would be cheaper to go to court for me,but more expensive for her.I have set out the letter to try and adhere to the pre-action protocols or practice direction.I really dont want to go to court but I think its my only option.I am worried she will sell the car in the meantime,Then what?
Answers
Make an appointment with CAB who can put you in touch with a solicitor - 1/2 hour appointment with solicitor is free. He should be able to advise as to strength of your case and go from there.
15:59 Sat 02nd Aug 2014
The car was in my name previously,it changed on the 2nd july,we split on the 18th,the relationship was "official" for 7 weeks ! I maintained the car while in her use,parts etc.on the night of the split by text she said she would return the car,then asked how much to buy it and next day said she was keeping it !
I'm only guessing, but I would have thought it would be very hard for you to prove from the emails to the guy you swapped it with that you didn't give it to your gf as a gift, however the text messages I would have thought would give you more weight to the argument.
One other thought, if you own the car and she wont return it then surely its stolen?, should you report it as stolen?
One other thought If she fails to insure it and is caught then I think the police tend to seize the car and ultimately crush them.
One other thought, if you own the car and she wont return it then surely its stolen?, should you report it as stolen?
One other thought If she fails to insure it and is caught then I think the police tend to seize the car and ultimately crush them.