How do Women like to be treated?

[Mxfan]

I have been with my girlfriend over 4 weeks now. I like to make her feel special. eg. Kissing, cuddling cheering her up when shes sad. Just the general boyfriend/girlfriend thing. How do you make your partners feel special?

[GraceAnais]

i don't have a partner (see my post on manstealing) but i think all the things you do sound really nice. it's good to know there are some nice men out there. you sound like a good boyfriend....lucky gal.

[Hamish]

I suggest treating her as you would want to be treated. As you lean more about her you will discover the things she likes/doesnt like. My GF (now wife of 11yrs!) didn't like practical jokes, but loved my crazy sense of humour letters.

It will always depend on the person. Some times it is little things which men might consider trivial or soppy - I was at uni for some time and put a 'calander' together of chocolate bars - one of each week, with a little messg tucked inside.

[coffeeman]

best to remember this one

TREAT EM MEAN KEEP EM MEAN

[alijangra]

Sometimes just having someone who listens to you can make you feel special.

[mimififi]

I am made to feel special by my husband when he does practical tasks for me particularly without being asked, i.e, making me a cup of coffee in the morning when he is downstairs (I don't always get up with him as he leaves the house at 5.30) and he brings it up to me before he goes.

he often fills my car up with petrol for me so i don't have to do it (He knows I hate filling the car) and he is an absolute god send as my personal computer support engineer as I am a reallyrubbish pc user. He writes all sorts of scripts and programs for me that are form based so I don't have to do any HTML coding or anything like that, which I hate and can't do (I have a web based business you see that I am continually having to update and change the website) Also, he just encourages me to the end to do the things that i want to do so I never feel as though I have failed.

I'm not really into flowers or chocolates of anything like that, but to come home to a clean kitchen or a hooevered floor because he has done it while I've been out: I can't tell you how much that means to me, not least of all because it is also something that he hates doing and he doesnt care if the house is tidy or not. he does it because he knows that I love the house to be tidy and it gets me down when its not.

It's that sense of sacrifice isn't it.

i try to do equivalent for him, but I feel he is a better husband to me than i am wife to him......but it's a work in progress.