My Mum was discharged from hospital after suffering from bacterial meningitis, no one thought to tell me, so I went to visit. The staff nurse looked shocked that the Professor in charge of her case had done that. Mum arrived at the nursing home with me about an hour behind, before I got there the staff thought her breathing was not right so called the doctor, who immediately admitted her, she had hospital contracted pneumonia.... A leading Prof at Queens Med, Nottingham had completely missed it or wanted his isolation bed for someone else.... Who knows! And it got worse from there on in.... So the very little faith I had in Doctors has diminished to zero. I know how you feel Ladies but I doubt we'll make a difference