Women and NSA sex...

[irisred]

Why is it believed that women cannot do NSA sex?  And how no strings is no strings?  If you like someone but see and like the fact that there is no possible future does that count as no strings?

[dove]

women who have a "nsa" attitude r the ones u wanna stay clearof.

 every woman that means she only wants sex DOES!

 but then they want more........ lots more.......... its only the dogs that will go with any one that say that malarchy

be careful hun x

[irisred]

Wasn't talking aboout sleeping with any man with a pulse!  Is it not possible then to have NSA sex with someone you know but want nothing more from?

[dove]

not in my experience.....

I always get involved x

[irisred]

Aye Dove - I have too.  But there was a posting on here earlier this week that intrigued me and I wanted to know.

xx

[georgit79]

I just read that as NASA sex...thought it was some kind of space sex thing....

[I_Tried]

Irisred,

What is it that actually intrigues you? as i think i posted the question you refer to and have you been contemplating NSA. I now am intrigued by your whole approach to this Irisred please enlighten.

[nicola_red]

Of course women can do NSA sex.  You just have to be clear about the objectives from the start and be honest with each other if any stronger feelings develop.  And in my experience that happens to men just as often as it does to women.  But I think you do have to like the person as a friend if you're gonna do it regularly - sex with someone you actively dislike would soon becomes tiresome. 

[irisred]

Well I_Tried the replies to the posting that intrigued me basically made out that women who do the NSA thing are not very nice people and are only good for one thing.

I have done the NSA sex thing and it was great fun.  We both knew exactly what it was and why we were there.  I do not believe that this makes me a bad person!  We also still get on really well.

I do not go out and sleep with any man that gives me attention and if I were to do the NSA thing again it would have to be with someone I know and trust.  Which is why I asked about the level of stringiness involved.  If you are friends before then is it NSA sex or something else?

I'd also had a few glasses of wine last night so the brain was working overtime! 
:o)

[jennean]

there is nothing wrong with nsa if its ok for men why not for women?

[I_Tried]

Irisred,

Nothing wrong in having NSA if you're a woman I don't thing it is proper to label one sex over another for example I thing it is wrong to label a woman for her promiscous ways and not a man, why should a man be viewed any differnt.

And to your point Irisred, I believe it is still NSA even if you know the girl/guy, why, simply for the fact that you you both are aware there is no committemnt involved after the sexual act.

Hope that clears the air abit IRISRED, and whether you do NSA sex or not for me is not seen as a stain on you as a person or an individual. I am sure many others would indulge but are not maybe as open as you or I in discussing these issues. I persoannly do not see any point in hiding what I do because if I hide what I do then I am ashamed of my action.

Do come back IRISRED would love to take this to the limit of discussion if possible.

Hope I made myself clear if not am sorry but I_Treid xx

[irisred]

In fact, since my last posting on this subject have indulged in said act.  Altho not sure he coped with it that well!

Time, as they say, will tell!

I am still of the belief that people can have the no commitment sex with no harm done!

[dove]

mark my words .

SOMEONE WILL BE HURT!

[andy hughes]

I agree with nicola_red you both have to know the rules in advance, and stick to them.Problem, is, one or other of the parties can get 'attatched' and that's where the problem starts. You need to be able to keep your emotions under control - or better still, be of the correct mind-set before you begin. If you don't think you can do that, don't start, and if your feelings change, stop.

[web4net]

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