Any Suggestions Why He Makes Exuses?

[Agnes_Lovato]

So here it is. We met in school, he knew me, but He always was staring at me and afraid of starting convo. He dont have many friends especially girls. after a time we became really good friends, he wasnt so afraid to speak with me. I really liked him and i thought he also felt the same for me. He was giving me those signs. Was nice to me. Couldnt hold his eye contact long. Being close to me sometimes was glancing at me with his corner of eye. Was iniciating convo, but coudnt find good topic or continue convo, due to his shyness. One day he was smiling to me and another he could ignore me or give a poker face.

He knows how i feel for him, since one day i texted him and said straight. I couldnt wait more. But the only his answer was- :3 umm I suggested him to see, he said it would be great, but now is busy and only after week he could. So i said him to write me and he replied that he is shy, but however then he wrote that will try. The point is i dont think so that he was so busy, i know he had time. besides he started ignoring my msg. So i called him and he again found a reason not to meet. I know he wasnt lying to me about excuses, but i just cant understand one thing. If he likes me, why he cant make priorities? Or there are such types of men who are extremely afraid of women? or he treats me only as a friend and dont want to hurt me, but why then he was showing me those signs and gave me hope? I just have feeling that i scared him..

I cant see him face to face and that is a problem. I still dont understand if im rejected or he is not ready.. Any suggestions??

[boxtops]

That's a huge assumption, agnes. You can't put yourself in someone else's mind. Perhaps - quite possibly - he just had a huge crush on you, and was (as you said) shy to do anything about it. It's no big deal, it happens a lot to people in school, lads growing up. You need to grow out of it, and put it down to experience - there's no need for any sort of explanation.

[boxtops]

...and how horrid to say he's not attractive and that therefore he should be grateful that someone likes him!

[Tilly2]

Well, I never.

[Old_Geezer]

I can't imagine why anyone wouldn't be falling over themselves to get a catch like you Agnes. You are right, he must be completely gay.

[Agnes_Lovato]

Nowadays man are foolish. he just could say lets stay friends, but no he acted like girl.

[boxtops]

There's no point in saying nasty things about him just because he doesn't want to get off with you, agnes.

Where do you live, by the way?

[Agnes_Lovato]

nvm

[scorpiojo]

?

[boxtops]

what's nvm?

[Agnes_Lovato]

yes?

[Agnes_Lovato]

Just nevermind its not important where i live

[B00]

nvm= nevermind.

Can't help with the op question as my eyes glazed over 2nd sentence in, apologies.

[pixie373]

Never mind?

[boxtops]

Well, it might be - cultural differences vary from country to country, and how someone behaves here in the UK might be read very differently in another country. We are a UK site, I thought it might be useful to know if you were somewhere else in the world.

[Prudie]

Internet slang says nvm means nevermind so we have all learnt something. I think you are being asked if you are from the UK, no biggie...

[Agnes_Lovato]

i can say that im from Europe

[pixie373]

I think you need to move on. He is aware and is not going with it.

[Agnes_Lovato]

i know i must go on, but cant help with that

[Tilly2]

Boo, you managed one more sentence than I did. Well done.