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I realise it can't be resolved here. I was having a bit of a rant. I can live with losing £3, what I don't like about this is ebay are backing a power seller who has loads of negatives. I thought they looked after the buyer, apparently not they get much more money from his selling than they get through my buying.
Ebay and Paypal are linked why would they back me. I really can't be done with the hassle for £3. I wish I hadn't complained to ebay in the first place.