All this aversion to competition, I think you need more experience of it so it's no longer such a big deal for you. Avoid that too much and you'll end up avoiding life. No one is there to hand you stuff on a plate, everyone needs to go out and get what they want. And accepting one isn't going to win a coconut every time, shrug off the losses and on to the new challenge, is part of life's deal.
Ultimately only you can list what appeals to you from what not, and then choose one to go for, but I hope you get loads of branstorming suggestions to start you off.