12a emotionally upset (10) - I - t - e - - - t
13a preliminary (12) I - t - o - u - t - - -
11d person selfishly preventing anothers enjoyment (3 2 3 6 )
20d parsimonious (6) s - a - t -
4d self importance (6) - - - I - m
26d complain constantly (4) c - e -
really struggling with this today