Do You Know Yourself?

[TWR]

What I mean by that, do you answer a Question with yes when you should have said no? have you been asked to go out, you have said yes just to please the other person? Have you stood in a queue & someone pushes in and you have said "Oh that's alright" when you should have said, there is a queue here?

[murraymints]

all the time.....unless I am caught on a bad day then I just let rip !!!

[Sqad]

Yes......all the time. Easy way out for sqad, BUT, like minty, catch me on the wrong day or push me too hard........then........

[-Talbot-]

Yes, I mean no. I mean yes I know myself , no I don't answer yes when I mean no.

[Baldric]

Do You Know Yourself? . . Yes.

What I mean by that, do you answer a Question with yes when you should have said no? . . No.

Have you stood in a queue & someone pushes in and you have said "Oh that's alright" when you should have said, there is a queue here? . . NO.

[RATTER15]

Yes

[Baldric]

Oops, missed one

have you been asked to go out, you have said yes just to please the other person? . . No.

[ummmm]

No....I don't say yes to please other people.

If someone pushed in I'd probably not say anything because I really don't care. As long as they're not rude.

[murraymints]

baldric..fancy a quiet wee pint tonight ?....lol

[andy-hughes]

I never find myself going against my instincts in behaviour.

When it comes to answering Questions on here, I think as I type, which has sometimes got me into bother, but that is the way I work, so I don;t think I'll be changing it now.

That said, I rarely say things I don;t mean, although I can have my argument dismantled by other posts, and I am always willing to concede if I have changed my view.

[woofgang]

1 yes
2 no
3 yes but only to one person who i loved a lot
4 no but i do let harassed people with one item into the queue ahead of me if its busy

[Baldric]

MM, yes, but no but yes!

[Old_Geezer]

Hello Me; have you met I ? Myself is around here somewhere too.

Of course I sometimes choose to please others, I'm a nice guy, that much I know.

[Barsel]

When I was younger, I was quieter and less confident but I feel that as I've got older I am saying things to people I wouldn't have said before.If someone pushed in front of me in a queue I would point it out but in a nice a way as possible and if they still didn't move, I'd lamp them one :-) If I really really don't want to go somewhere I would explain why I didn't want to go but quite often I will be talked into it.

[janbee]

Yes. Mug or what!

[Dizmo]

Barsel: You would bring yourself to lamp someone but are unable to say no to being dragged out somewhere? I'd suggest offsetting some of your anger towards t'other.

[Stephen_G]

Yes, on many occasions I have said I would go out to please someone else. Usually for Birthday drinks, but no-one ever suggested going out for mine though...

Yes, I have pointed out that "There is a queue, you know." However, as a 6' 3" 18-stone, knuckle-dragging neanderthal, I feel quite comfortable in doing so. Shop windows are just perfect for putting queue-jumpers through! That's the Playschool Principle!!!

[kuulteach]

When I was in my twenties I was popular... great listener..always there for me ...invite lonely people onto own privates friendship groups.. pay for night out for someone cos they were broke... babysat cos they couldn't afford to pay for one... pick up tab at restaurant .....
Then one day i reassessed my friends. And started to say no to those I thought were hangers on... took about a year ...wonderful and liberating...all new friends are treated with 'suspicion' until they prove themselves ..... the erstwhile considered acquaintances or colleagues

[rsvp]

100% - and have no sympathy for those who think they do but don't.