Comforting Words

[tamborine]

Cousin's 30y daughter has died of brain tumour. I dont know what to write to comfort her. I need a few brief words in a card, please.

[mallyh]

how very sad ,so young ....i would keep it short with something like my thoughts are with you at this very sad time .

[Peaspeculiars]

Oh Tambo - what awful news - I'm sorry to hear this. My sympathies to both yourself and to your family.

Just go with your thoughts and let them flow onto the page, especially if you were close. but if you are struggling, some ideas would be:
My family and I are truly saddened by the loss of (Name). Our thoughts and hearts are with you at this time and if you need us for anything at all, we are here for you, even if it is just to talk. I can't imagine what you are feeling right now, so please reach out to me in your time of need - I am only a phone call away.
Then if you feel up to it, you could put a little about your memories of your cousins daughter and how she made you smile - and if you are religious, perhaps offer a prayer.

Very difficult to put your feelings into prose at this time, but just do a draft first, read and if it feels ok, write it on the card.
Once again - my condolences Tambo xx

[ummmm]

I've said it before on here. When my dad died someone wrote in a card 'your loss is Gods gain'

And that simple sentence touched me.

[tamborine]

thanks, I was trying to include something on the lines of 'angels go early'....not good words but maybe you get the gist and can put it better?

We're all devastated.

[lady-janine]

how very sad. what peas has written sounds a good basis on how to start. i'm sure you will put down something to help. just be there and contact them occasionally throughout the next few months. that is if you don't already.

[mammameerkat]

I agree with peas- it's a terrible time for all of you but write what you feel and try to avoid clichés if possible. The words from you are what matter and the fact you are there.

[LyndaB]

Grief is the price we pay for love

[Pooka1950]

When I lost my lovely Mum I received a card that I have kept and still look at from time to time. It simply said "Memories are the stars that lighten our darkness". I love that sentiment.

[tinkerbell23]

So sorry to hear that tambo xx

[Mamyalynne]

So sad to read this Tambo - please accept my condolences, I have replied to your message elsewhere too.x