I Wrote To My Mp

[Bonkers123]

This is painful to recall ...but it needs to be asked as i am so confused !My ex was charged with rape .He admitted to his friends that he had assaulted me several times after plying with me drink ! I was distraught as i knew from the bruises that would appear, that he had done it .He went on to tell his pals that when i questioned him he just denied it and called me a silly drunk *** ! The evidence was overwhelming and he was arrested .7 weeks into the investigation i went back to him in a moment of madness.He bombarded me ,he threatened suicide etc and like a fool i fell for it .He went running to the police to tell them this and i realised he had simply used me to get me to drop the case ! I was so sad,the police told me off and asked me if i wanted to continue etc ..i said es of course .They told me they had prepared a file and were sending it to the cps.A week later they rang and said NFA ..i was speechless .I rang the cps and they said they hd never recieved a file ? The police lied to me ! It has bee over a year now ,my ex has been convicted of breaching a non molest since ,but was arrested no less then 6 times before the conviction and released each time on bail !! and is on a suspended sentence ,bail conditions put in place etc and a fine .He rang me last week 3 times and was arrested .Bail again .His partner made a fake profile on FB and added me as a friend .Arrested and bail yet again ! I finally had enough ,i wrote to my MP ,the police have asked me to suddenly come in and discuss the nfa regarding the sexual assault .I am fuming that it took am MP to do this .I have also been approached by a newspaper to tell my story as he has gotten away with so much ! No less the 6 arrests and 6 times bailed ? Any advice on what i should say to the police,what i can do ? Should i tell them about the papers ? I want the sexual assault case looked at again ..the evidence is all there ...thank you so much in advance .

[bednobs]

i think you should wait and hear what they have to ay first

[Mosaic]

From what you describe, some lazy pc will now be squirming as their nuts will be potentially in a rat trap about not forwarding this file.
Given the high profile of domestic violence at present, their arrogance in doing this takes some believing.
Your MP has made them jump. This is where it gets tricky. The police have all sorts of access to legal advice and it will be in their interests to make this all blow over. So if you agree to 'come in for a chat' I anticipate this will actually mean you could be subjected to pressure and persuasion to agree that there's really no problem.
In your position I would only attend such a meeting with a legal representative with me, and with a recording device running. This could be too expensive to set up for you, in which case, consider what you might gain or lose from such a meeting, before you decide whether to attend or not.
It's understandable that you're angry, but sadly the world we inhabot seems to only reward those people who are prepared to get r-sey to protect their rights.
As for the papers, I would be very very cautious, as we are just a means of increasing sales. They won't give a hoot what they suggest about you, or what happens to you afterwards. So think carefully about what you'd want from newspaper covergae before agreeing to it.
Best of luck - get this one behind you, and work on your self-esteem for future choices about relationships.

[Dizmo]

Mosaic's advice is very good. This has been going on for a long time and the fact that he attacked you with a baseball bat is just terrible. I wish you the all the best and hopefully you'll get justice.

[Bonkers123]

Thank you Mosaic,you have a very intelligent head on your shoulders indeed .I appreciate the advice and will certainly take it on board .I have a meeting tomorrow with WAR( women against rape) as they are appalled at the polices incompetence .The fact that the suspended sentence he is currently on should have been activated 4 weeks for the contact that he attempted to make,is beyond me..i gave them the evidence,i screenshot each call ,yet bailed again ? I don't want this to continue,i simply want to know they are subjecting me to this over and over again.That is one manipulative man !I want to move on ...Thank you so much .

[hammerman]

Can't offer any advice except to echo Mosaic's advice about the press. Keep well away unless you need to use them, they have a terrible habbit of not letting the truth get in the way of a good story.
Good luck