Am I Wasting My Time

[cazza247]

I really like this guy who comes into my work but I don't even know his first name. I want to ask him out but all I know about him is where he works, lives , hobbies etc.Sounds really silly not knowing his name but I'm not afraid to ask him out just not sure how to go about

[AlwaysConfused]

just go ahead and do it. Find out his name first, though!

[novalis]

Totally agree with AlwaysConfused. Ask him what he is called then go for it.

[mastercraft]

Maybe wait until HE asks YOU your name, then you'll know the feeling is mutual.

[cazza247]

Lol he knows mine as I work in a betting shop and he is a policeman I think it's Ian but I'm not 100% sure. Get disappointed when routine checks are his colleagues and not him how pathetic is that

[woofgang]

When he comes in, take a deep breath, smile at him and ask him out for coffee. Do you know that he is single and unattached?

[cazza247]

Yes he is single I found that out months ago he came in with a young colleague an we were talking about buying flowers and I said to him do you buy your other half flowers andhis reply was don't have one.

[RandyMarsh]

start with small talk and go from there

[Elina]

Hi Cazza, if you've known him for months & he hasn't made a move yet, I'd be inclined to hold back.

[Old_Geezer]

Ha ! He could be bashful. It isn't realistic to always wait for the male to make the first move. Go chat with him, show an interest, see how it goes. Worst that can happen is that he's not interested, which is no big deal. if he decides he is ...

[Gavmacp]

The only time your wasting is the time it is taking you to do something. Life doesn't always come to you be brave!

[silliemillie]

Bear in mind it's taken cazza 5 months to ask us this question!