So Confused

chickpea49 | 15:15 Fri 05th Jun 2015 | Relationships & Dating

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I dated this guy at work for a year was all very hush hush, he didn't treat me great and I ended up leaving my job to get away from him. Despite hi treating me badly I wish him well etc I wouldn't hold a grudge as I think things happens for a reason. Anyway the new guy I'm seeing also worked at the same company and whilst he didn't know about my ex in the spirit of being honest I told him who I was seeing and that he didn't treat me to well so I lost my confidence. They now work in the same department And my new boyfriend hates him and holds such a grudge towards him for something I went through. I have had no contact with my ex until yesterday when he called my office phone at my new job. He knows where I work and came through our switchboard as he doesn't have my phone numbers now. He was calling to tell me that my current boyfriend keeps checking his LinkedIn profile and it's getting really annoying as they work together and of he as something to say then go over and ask him. We actually had a nice chat and I got real closure from him. He told me that this was his last day at the company so they won't be around each other anymore. Do u tell my new boyfriend that I heard from him and about the LinkedIn stuff or keep quiet as now he has left hopefully we can all move on. I am worried that my new bf will mention he has left and am I supposed to act like I don't know. Also if he does continue to check his profile to find out where he has gone to the ex may send a message saying he has already spoken to me and it has to stop. Do I just keep quiet until the subject is bought up. Do I say something now or do I just forget it now he has gone and move on!