Who remembers their first love?

[butterfly23]

Do you think you loved this person more than the person you love now? How did you meet your first love?

[Champagne]

Well you'd have to be pretty scatty to forget it!!

I definitely didn�t love them more than the person I love now. It was a young, innocent and unconditional love though. I�ll certainly never have that innocence back again but that�s not necessarily a bad thing. I do still love unconditionally though. I don�t believe that once you truly love somebody you can suddenly decide not to love them. You can hate them at the same time though. :o)

[happi_red]

My first love lasted 6 and a half years and has been my only love so far. I met him on a computer at college and had an argument with him (started as we meant to go on lol). I will always love this guy, but things did not work out.

Have no intention of ever falling in love again because its much too painful and too much like hard work for a lazy person like me!

[Rubyrose]

Yep, I remember mine. He broke up with me 5 months ago! Lol. We were together since I was 16. I am now 21. Ohwell. I have things to look forward to then I guess. :o)

[Goodsoulette]

^^^ I thought you were older than that!!

I feel differently about everyone I have loved . Some I hate, some I picture as having had a perfect relationship with and think I was happier then though, in reality I am sure I wasnt.

[girlygirl]

I got engaged to my first love on my 18th Birthday, Thank God I came to my senses!!!!!

Lucky escape me thinks........

I still think about him occasionally but we were together for almost 3 years and lived together so I guess thats normal?

[miniegg]

Fisrt Love ?

I can honestley say that i was never sure what love was.

Growing up through my teens and early 20's i had a few boyfriends.One at the age of 16 until 19, he was my first love, or so i thought !

Can we at such an early age say what love is ........?????

i met my husband 3 years ago and married with-in 6 months. i would call him my first love.

As i understand through past relationships, that the feelings i had before were not love. they were feelings that i confused with love, and how i though being in love was.

[Bohne]

I remember the first person I had a crush on...

:o)

After that I thought I was in love twice more, but ever since I met my husband, I know that it was nothing compared to what I have now!

[stoo_pid]

Still very good friends with my 'first love' (actually, now I come to think about it I'm still friends with my first three loves!). At the time it certainly felt like love but eventually it became clear she wasn't the right one for me, so we split up.

Although I was pretty keen in the beginning, I certainly didn't love her anyway near as much as I love Mrs Pid (otherwise she would have been Mrs Pid instead).

To answer the last part of the question, we met at a party.

[littlemissx]

my first love i was with for 3 years... i still love him in some ways although we never speak these days.

my first "real love" i was only with for a short amount of time but can honestly say i was heartbroken when we split... no arguments etc he just didnt know what he wanted. and as bad as it sounds although i love my partner now if this guy was to ever contact me again he would be the only person to ever make me doubt my current relationship.

[spaced]

i remember my first love. But the love I have for my wife to be is no where close to the love I shared with my first love.

I was with my first love for over a year ( i was 16 and now 29), then I caught the dirty cow with a bloke from the local kebab house. At the time I was heart broken, but got over after a day ;-) but she did me a favour becuase if I had stayed with her, god knows if I would have still met my future wife or still with "Kelly the Slapper". Still see her from time to time, with her baby and no father. She totally ignores me of course, like her going with some local kebab slicer was my fault. She wouldnt look out of place on Trisha or the Jeremey Kyle Show!! Things are different when your young eh!

[andy-hughes]

I met my first love at a party. We went out for nearly a year and a half. She was the first girl I ever slept with. She broke my heart, not only because she married someone else, but because she didn't tell me herself, she let her mother do it for her. If you are going to leave someone you are going to hurt them, but you can lessen that hurt by having enough respect for the left one to tell them face to face. The last thing she ever said to me was "Hate me ... forget me."

I can't

and I can't.

[Madison68]

I am living with my first love after a pretty bad break up and a really tempestuous reunion last year. She left me when I was 17 and came back when I was 36. I never forgot her and although I dated three other women in those 20 years, they never came close.

We met as young children and grew up together.

[Goodsoulette]

AWWWW.....Andy thats so sad.

...but it makes you sound cute too xxx

[andy-hughes]

Thanks Goodsoulette, that's really nice of you.

xx