I find this programme really interesting. Most women have been planning their wedding in their head for years - since they were about 5 probably! I think to some extent they don't even spare a thought for the groom, just a fixed idea of what they want and when they go on Don't Tell the Bride they get the chance to share those plans - church wedding, reception in a big country house etc etc which then makes good telly because it contrasts with how it actually turns out. To some extent, the groom is hardly matters in most women's dream wedding. However, with the men planning the weddings they tend to approach it from a different perspective and make it more poignant to the couple - for example the groom who gave the wedding a Christmas theme because he knew his bride loved Christmas, or the one who had a beach display in the marquee showing pictures and memories of the couple when they first met and were first dating. Ok, so the men don't always get it right and there are trials and tribulations along the way, but I think it's really interesting to watch the way the blokes approach it compared to how a woman would. IMO anyway!!