I know this thread started in 2009 but still helping many people years later.
This is my experience I took marvelon for about ten years and had no problems at all (wondering if I did I just didn't notice) I did have a very emotionally abuisve boyfriend at the time and I suffered with eating disorders and self harm and used to drink way way too much - I do think the ex had a fair amount to do with this as I was never thin enough even at 7.5 stone which at 6ft was never good, but now I wonder if these tablets have something to do with it - doctors (mine was useless) never question that the pill might be causing emotional difficulties.
I stopped taking it for three years before meeting my new boyfriend and took for a year, was taken off it as I moved and new Dr did not like me being 37 and on this pill (fav lady doctor now) went onto the mini-pill and lasted one month before I ended them I couldn't take it I went to a very dark place I wanted to kill myself I wanted to kill my boyfriend I started to worry I would hurt my cats, my OCD went off the charts I started self harming and generally turned into a vile human being, my doctor agreed to put me back on Marvelon for three months.
Well a month in my poor boyfriend got a verbal hammering for 48hrs (this poor man) he said your going funny because of these tablets I knew best what did he know stupid man (he is far from stupid and so loving) so I had a break and I definitely felt different but put it down to seeing family starting a new job and my fluff ball getting better.
Well I'm seven days into pack two this has been the worst experience past four days have been horrendous, when in the office I could not even string a sentence together brain fog like no body's business, all those feelings came back depression, crying constantly so much so I become hysterical and can't see out of my eyes everything is too much to cope with. I see a baby or a kitten and I'm a mess, I turn into the girl who drank too much and ends up crying into her wine lool (oh dear god it's really not funny!)
Anyway it is nice to hear I'm not alone and what I would say to anyone is really listen to your body, and tell your partners, your loved ones your friends to look out - my boyfriend said you have to stop taking it now after telling him I wanted to die and that he made me so angry that I wanted to burn his house down (Shameful and not me I am a loving kind person) this is terrible for you
Well what he actually said was that the extra boobs are not worth you turning into a psychotic cow - those tablets are making you crazy which I did not take very well so cue ten hours of crazy lady but am not talking anymore
So listen to your friends & loved ones before taking but know you might think you are your normal self when actually your on the road to self destruction xx