Ab Ladies...

[nailit]

Would like your help with this question...
Just what do women look for, and want, from a man?
Its all a bit perplexing for some of us guys.
Had a couple of friends around last night and after imbibing a few intoxicating substances between us (and getting quiet chatty about our past relationships) realised that none of us actually KNOW what it is that you ladies actually want!
All 3 of us have had a few long term relationships. All 3 of us are now single. (as of course are a lot of ladies). But it seems a common complaint, amongst the male population at least, that men just dont know what women actually want, require or need.

Do you want/ need
1) someone to guide and protect you? or
2) someone to admire and serve you?

Would you prefer a dominant male, a submissive male or an equal (there are no right or wrong answers here)

Thank you..

[Retrochic]

Ah a master class on Italics and I missed it - oh dear lol!

[-SharonA-]

Shame!

[Retrochic]

now you are just showing off ;-)

[DaisyNonna]

Guided? Protected? Admired? Served?
Lived alone too long to want any of them.

[nailit]

Sorry I didnt get back to this thread last night, had some unexpected visitors. Thanks for your replies.

[ummmm]

So Nailit, where do you think you're going wrong?

[nailit]

My charm, good looks and intellect seem to attract the wrong type ummmm ;-)

[ummmm]

I attract nutters.

[nailit]

lol

[TTG]

Never do everything a womans says and you will be fine. On more than one occasion, in conversation with me, a woman has sneered at the fact their other half does everything they say. The men in question are now divorced.

[viv41]

A man who loves animals and kids as much as I do and NOM a big willy doesn't bother me, I prefer small and neat !

[cazza247]

Someone who makes me laugh, intelligent conversation,looks not important. Don't want all that hearts n flowers stuff either

Love your avatar well worth the wait lol
Have you any luck on the job front

[jennyjoan]

I knew a young lad many years ago - he may have been 10 years younger - fixed oul bangers/cars for me - but there was "chemistry". Nothing came off it and he went on believe it or not to marry an older girl.

I met him about 2 months ago and many moons have passed but still my tummy flickered and my heart. You just "know".

[tonyav]

jj, you should have acted when you had the chance. There's something about a chap that can use a spanner ain't there ;-)

[Arksided]

I thought she meant she still owed him some money for fixing the motors.

[tonyav]

Probably does, Arksided.
If all the gals whose cars I've fixed in the past had paid me ( money ) I'd be a rich man now.

[Arksided]

Lol, indeed I'm sure you would ;-)

[bunkmoreland]

Psybbo indeed got it in one "chemistry" ! Any great relationship romantic or friendly needs the 2 people to just get each others humour or way of dealing with life in general. A second word would be "tolerance" ;-)