I saw a thread the other night, but cannot find it now .... someone like kayakamina gets 'aggro' for using a phrase like 'hard on yourself', but those who are abusive to other abers and use coded...
A huge belated thanks to all those who responded with such kind words last week, when I was upset about my parents dog being put to sleep. Jan, Daymurphy,Bensmum,Beejay,Waterboatman,Zzxxee, Yogibear...