I don't personally watch the programme, but it's fairly true to say that there is so much bias against travellers generally that whenever a travelling family settle, or a girl marries a gordji and tries to fit in with his way of life or occasionally vice versa that it never works because the community as a whole nearly breaks it's back to be as difficult and unaccepting as it can possibly manage ( and that's traveller and gordji communities I'm talking about). Predjeudice is a horrible thing whichever ways it's pointing.