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Change of plan, I'm not doing this because I don't want to keep Tinker, she has settled well in the last few days and would be totally fine and she would potentially become the dominant one as she already chases Trisha away who then chases Lizzie away, but my brother-in-laws granddaughter, who is 6, has been asking for a kitten for months and their local RSPCA has none available, and so he rang me last night aftyer seeing Tinker on my facebook and asked if I would consider letting him have her at his house. he has a huge detached bungalow (more like a villa!) in the middle of fields out in Scarisbricke . I checked with my daughter and she wasn't overly pleased that i was considering it, but I have sais I would let them have Tinker. I knwo she has settled quickly here and so there is no reason she shouldn't do the same there. I've told them that she isn't very affectionate at the moment and I don't think that will change, she is very very independant. Anyway, I'm taking her there later. It's another disruption for her but if she hadn't seemed to adapt to this last change so easily I wouldn't have considered uprooting her again,