I went through the entire range available before falling upon wax ones. Once they are warmed in the hand and moulded to fit your ear, they form a kind of seal, and prevent most noise. These allowi our eardrums to be aware of any alarm which may occur. I have also meditated frequently, my focus being why does it irritate me so much? Could it be that I was making the snoring an excuse for not being as 'close' as you once were, or there are other issues which can affect your own perception of what IS known to be a contributrary reason for devorce. Just saying......