Am Annoyed

[jennyjoan]

Nephew drew up at my neighbour's house to price a job - she flooded etc.

He came over to say hello and good bye - he had his son aged 6 - hateful brat - anyway he refused to come into house and started screaming Noooo in the middle of the street - got into the van as nephew was reversing etc I am at the door waving goodbye - brat closed his eyes the whole time.

Am so hurt that when they come here I make a fuss of them - 2 sons are brats - nephew is lovely. Yeah and it is ok when it comes to Xmas - am lost for words actually

No there is nothing wrong with them just totally spoilt and nephew thinks the sun and moon and stars shines out of their a$ses.

[Patsy33]

It is very hurtful JJ. They are still very young, spoilt as you say and think the world revolves around them. Don't take it personally. Hopefully he might grow out of it.

[woofgang]

children are children....they do what they do. no point being hurt.

[murraymints]

I'd take a step back Conne and stop being so generous... you spend your money on yourself..enjoy it and use it to make yourself happy and comfortable... ps.. there's a lovely diamond necklace in COSTCO I rather like, only £35 k ! lol xx

[jennyjoan]

woof - it is hard to take

[jennyjoan]

I only do it because of the nephew really - not for any love of the brats.

[jennyjoan]

nah - you don't need any more jewellery murray. I'm sure you have loads

[anneasquith]

JJ. Children can be little bra*s, take no notice, your nephew visited that's what's important .

[woofgang]

I don't expect other people's kids to like me any more than I expect other people's dogs to like me....

[mikey4444]

Jenny...then just ignore the brats then.....why not ?

[jennyjoan]

kids and dogs are different methinks

[Sqad]

JJ....that scenario is now par for the course......one sees badly behaved children with parents and even grandparents, totally uncontrollable in the shops streets, airports.....and so on.
I just ignore them (if possible) even my own grandchildren.
I think woofy is right.....some do grow out of it.
A good thrashing is required but instead they are put on the "naughty stool".....whatever that is or is supposed to do.

[mikey4444]

Dogs give unconditional love. But kids rarely do these days, in my experience.

[jennyjoan]

i needed that like a hole in the head as I am suffering overwhelmingly with so much pain - that's added to the stress. I know I'm mad but that's the way I am.

I just adore kids with manners - there are about 6 kids in the street who have them and I love them.

[jennyjoan]

Am feeling a little better with your postings.

[jennyjoan]

I think that's what's wrong with me - I am thinking God he so not likes me.

[murraymints]

not worth getting upset over Jenny..good manners are..alas..a thing of the past in many children I fear....

[jennyjoan]

right

[DTCwordfan]

If you want to spend some dosh, how about one of these then, coming to auction....

[Mamyalynne]

I'd ask your nephew only to call when his son isn't with him, the bad feeling seems to be mutual between you and the young lad.

[jennyjoan]

thanks for your post mamy - but truly nothing to do with bad feelings etc - he hardly knows me - nephew will be working on the opposite house for a couple weeks - kid won't be with him. Do think nephew should have said - "stop that carryon etc"