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What Is The Normal Thing To Do In This Situation.
Say you had been a member of a sports club and had trained regularly for years with 4 people, this faded a little towards the end with people working/ different hobbies so you didn't have much contact with them. Apart from a guy from the group who you had started to date (the group knew about this vaguely).
One of the ladies was getting married and sent a wedding invitation to the guy with a plus 1 ie he could take one person. You didn't receive an invitation from her. She kept texting the guy/your bf asking who he was taking. Your bf wants to take you obviously
Do you go or would you not go as you didn't personally receive an invitation even though she has known you for years.
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Wedding couples don't have infinite budgets, churches (or registry offices) don't have an infinite number of pews/seats, reception venues don't have an infinite number of tables and chairs. So, inevitably, there will always be some constraints upon the number of guests invited to a wedding (and/or to the reception afterwards). Therefore it's not unusual for two people, who're roughly of similar standing with the bride or groom, to fall just either side of the cut-off point for invitations.
It would therefore be ridiculous (or should that be 'churlish'?) for someone to refuse to attend as a 'plus one' guest, just because he/she happened to have fallen slightly below the cut-off point to receive a personal invitation.