euthanasia

[mychoice]

is it time to have my little dog put to sleep? He is 13 and has liver cirrhosis and has trouble getting up and down and standing. He is going blind and bumps into things. He walks around the garden for ages then comes indoors and messes on the carpet. I love him so much. I adopted him when he was 2.

[kipchik]

When its time its so bl00dy hard to say goodbye,our rott had bone cancer when she was nearly 11,it was the hardest thing to do but she was ready,her eyes were dull,her coat lost its shine and her eyes told me all i needed to know,it was the last thing i could do for her and i know i was right,its hard,best wishes!!

[shaneystar2]

Bless him ..if his quality of life is no good anymore then this is the kindest and last loving thing you can do for him.
You will be sad but will have lots of happy memories....you gave him a good home and he's had a good life.
Don't let him suffer any longer.
All the best....take care.

[Nick.Detroit]

It's a horrid thing to do ... you have to remember that if your doggies quality of life is that bad, you're only keeping him alive for selfish reasons ... i know it sounds harsh, but if your dog's suffering and not enjoying it's life then you have to do what is best for the dog, not for you...

Sorry if I sound like a heartless bar-steward, I'm not ... I've been through the same thing...

[kipchik]

I agree actually nick,thats what i told myself when she got bad,I dont wanna lose her BUT she deserved much more,she was ready,s0d me!Doesnt make it any easier when you have to do it though!

[seekeerz]

It's one of the hardest decisions to make - to realise that a beloved pet is nearing the end of it's life. My chinchilla cat reached that point in August last year and the memory of that day still brings tears, but I knew he couldn't go on just for my sake so after all he gave to me for 15 years, I could give him a quiet, quick and comfortable passing and I owed him that much at least.

It takes courage I know and if you can, take a friend with you if you go to the vet's surgery, - not a good idea to try to drive afterwards.

I know the pain you're feeling now and my heart goes out to you and your four footed friend - be strong for his sake, when he can't be.

[janetsflower]

I went thru the same thing only on saturday and i can't tell you how much its hurting right now. My boy was 18 and while his liver, heart and kidneys were all fine he had really bad eyesight and hearing and struggled to get up out his bed in the mornings. He did the same things your is doing - bumping into things and going outside to do his business but not managing it til he got back inside. some nights he couldn't last and there would be little accidents in the kitchen in the morning. But he was/is so dearly loved and its the most awful thing in the world to have to say goodbye. I feel for you, it won't be easy but you got to do whats best and hold onto to the memories. I am sure you will never forget him as we won't ours

[eyeshade]

I think most of us have been here M, everyone has different thoughts but, simply, you know it is for the best. You must focus on better times and as I am writing this, tears are welling, but we are all human and it is difficult to let go of someone so precious. There is another life for them after this where they bound around, free of illness etc. and are often coming back to see us, so I am sure you will find the strength to do the right thing. We are all thinking of you!

[lilacben]

mychoice I really feel for you and know what you are going through. My dear Sacha had cancer and she got as bad as your dog. The last night I sat up with her all night and she managed to get outside to go to the toilet but just couldnt get back,it was pouring with rain and I went out in my nightie and carried her back in doors. The vet came the next morning. Oh even now after 8 years it still brings tears to my eyes. But for his sake let him go.my love and thoughts are with you both. Brenda x

[TheGopher]

A Pet's Plea

If it should be that I grow frail and weak
And pain should keep me from my sleep
Then you muct do what must be done
For this, the last battle, can't be won.
You will be sad- I understand
Don't let your grief then stay your hand
For this day, more than all the rest
Your love and friendship stand the test.
We've had so many happy years
What is to come can hold no fears
You'd not want me to suffer, so
When the time comes, please let me go.
I know in time you too will see
It is a kindness you do to me
Although my tail, it's last has waved
From pain and suffering I've been saved.
Don't grieve that it should be you
Who has decided this thing to do
We've been so close, we two these years
Don't let your heart hold any tears.

Author Unknown

[maggie01]

I always feel very sad when I read posts like this one, as it comes to us all at some stage if we have pets but The Gopher that pushed me over the edge. My throat hurts. That is so sad. Mychoice, I think you know the answer and it is very very difficult to come to terms with the decision. I would speak to your vet and go with what he says. Sometimes we hang on to our pets because we can't bear to be without them but sometimes we have to let them go. I feel for you but I am sure he has had a very happy life and that's all we can do really. Must go, can't read my page now.

[Litchick]

Dear MyChoice, I had to put my beloved cat to sleep after having the privilege of being his owner for 13 years. I can barely type this as I am crying again but it really is the final act of love. Don't let your doggie suffer. Just know that you loved him and believe me, he knows you loved him too.
My heart is with you....
XX

[druiaghtagh]

Only you can decide, but im sure that the love you have for your pet will lead you to what must be the correct decision. Like a lot of others here , ive been at this point and it is so hard, but it is a last act of love and kindness to let them go, bless you and your lovely pet and may God guide you in your choice, i will be thinking oof you both.

[lankeela]

Better a day too soon than a moment too late.

[lilacben]

Oh that poam was so nice and very very touching ,The Gopher. I am sitting here with tears in my eyes as well as that awful lump in my throat so that my husband doesn't see my crying.
My choice I have been thinking of you all day. and do hope you are alright. please take care. my thoguhts are with you.Brenda x

[janeo]

I think you know in your heart of hearts that the time is right to say goodbye to your dog. You can take comfort from knowing he's had a happy life.
I had to have my cat Emma put to sleep last December. She was only 7 but had always had health problems. In the end she could no longer walk & started messing indoors. I got a new kitten about 6 weeks after losing Emma & it really helped the grieving process. Hazel is not a replacement in any way, but she definitely "fills a space".
All the best.