Changing Look 2

[conkl]

I already had a question posted called Changing Look, those who replied to that you totally misunderstood what i ment. The expensive abercrombie and fitch, and Hollister clothing that i have been wearing wasn't me. I was suckered into that look because everyone else was wearing it so i thought i should. Then once i started wearing it i felt like it wasn't me. Plus why should i want to be like everyone else, thats beeing fake to myself. So now i'm trying to wear clothes that fit my personality better like, bright mis-match of colors, not that tight of clothing, just different things ( im not trying to be a friek, just different) . The whole dying my hair thing i'm doing that also because i want to and plus its more me. Cause when i style it im gonna make it look kind of messed up, NOT PERFECT. Your probably wondering what my personality is like: well I am a total jokester and i love to make people laugh, I'm very very athletic I've played soccer for 6 years and basketball for 3, I'm not ditsy i'm not the type of girl that would have a fit screaming oh my god i broke a nail, I'm very caring and love everyone,i'm a christian, I have a special ed sister that i adore and love + i stick up for her all the time, I'm a clutz and i'm definately not perfect. I hope all this xtra info helps. Sorry if i gave you guys the wrong idea in the first question i posted. Just want your opinion .ThAnKs!!!!!!!!!!!

[coggles]

Hello conkl, all I can say is just be yourself and whoever you want to be. As long as you are not hurting anyone, then just be YOU. If people don't like it, then that's their problem. You will find your style (not in a fashion sense) changes many times as you get older, because your personality and whole being will adapt to things you experience along the way. You have to learn to love yourself which isn't always easy though - I am 39 and have never managed it so far! You sound like someone trying to please too many people, when you should be thinking about who you really are. Sorry to have gone on a bit and good luck.

[dj_ajax]

Im guessing your american as you say soccer instead of football and the clothes you used to wear is abercrombie and fitch. The thing is everyone is different in their own way but most don't show it. I've seen that most people follow someone who is popular copying their style altogether which to me makes them sheep. What your doing is good by being rebellious and choosing your own style is good. You should pity people who cuss people for it they have no idea what being an individual is.

[coggles]

Sorry, that first sentence didn't sound right! What I meant was, be yourself and if that means you want to wear orange trousers with green and purple striped top, then do it!

[thewillow]

dj_ajax - Irish people say soccer too to save confusion with Gaelic football. Don't know if the same applies to Aussies.