sorry about the rudness, but my member is 11 odd inches when er ect, and my girl friend find it really scary and it hurt, any ideas as to what i can do ??
Get her very very wet before trying anything. Try lube if necessary and get her to relax. It would hurt because she is tensing her muscles. She is anticipating it hurting and therefore it does. Lots of foreplay normally cures that..
hardly like to ask how many even inches... however, women are constructed so as to be able to have babies through their vaginas, so penises, which are rather smaller, shouldn't be a problem. If length means you're putting undue pressure on her cervix, perhaps you could not push so hard?
If this is true....Ouch!!!
Although the length will hurt your lady only if you push too hard and knock her pelvic bone. I agree that it's also very annoying when it comes to condoms, as you have to be extra careful they don't slip.