am a bad person

[cherrybakewell]

got in heated phone call discussion with b/f (its now ex after this) as I used C word, so he has dumped me

oh shi*e

[cherrybakewell]

woops wrong section

[northernmonkey]

Judging from what you say
1 You was having argument - why?
2 What is the relationship like? Be honest please as nobody is here to judge you only offer advice and support
3 Is this the first time you have split up, if not then how many other times and for what reasons?

I've asked the questions, so rather than just answer you with 1 sentence, I can answer in more detail and also give you an answer that may be of some use to you.

And most important thing you need to be aware of is the bit below
- NO, you are not a bad person!!! Saying things in the heat of the moment is nothing that anybody has the right to say that your a bad person!!

[Nosha123]

ouch.. the c word is a bit harsh!!!! unless of course he is a C....

If you havent been together for long.. maybe it was a step too far for him and he decided he would rather not be with a delightful young lady who called him such a rude word!
Better start grovelling!!!!
;-)

[ummmm]

I use the 'C' word alot.

[lardhelmet]

Did you actually call him one cherry - or was it just a general C?

[McMouse]

I'm of the generation that finds the c word very strong and were I to call someone it to their face would expect to defend myself. Similarly if someone called me one I would feel obliged to thump them. Must say I do take care to avoid situations where this might occur as the fracas would probably put me in A&E.