SOME men?!

[neathgirl]

i know this is most definitely going to get the backs up of most of the men on here - but please be assured i am not having a go at all men! lets not get stuck into a gender war BUT.... why is that the majority of men (NOT ALL) seem to think with whats between their legs? After reading some questions on this site and the replies it just seems to me that alot of men are just ... well how can i put this .... complete mysgonistic neanderthals. I seem to have noticed it much more recently. Why do some of these men find it a must to share with everyone the fact that they saw a large pair of breasts or who they were "giving one too" last nite? At work i have noticed that it seems the married guys are the worst. Im just getting fed up of guys who are completely engrossed in sex or sex related things 24/7. Give me strength! Its enough to turn any woman to the affections of another woman! Please restore my faith in the opposite sex.

[JackDanielsU]

Thats just one group of us males. Which you have probably got panting and dribbling like loons, by mentioning the fact its enough to turn you to the arms of another woman. These creatures hang round in packs, each having to out do his mate, by saying what hes done the previous night (which in reality he stayed home and had his dinner cooked by his mum, and then watched tv. but tells his mates he was up all night with blonde twins) Get one of them on their own and I doubt he could even talk to a lass.

But coming down to the bare bones neathgirl yes most men think primarily with the 'old man' Its been going since we were cavemen, so thats why you see the scenes you do. Just reverting back to our ancestors

So yes there are some good uns out here. A rare breed perhaps? Who knows?

And surely men dont think about sex 24/7 that leaves no time for football!!!

[the>one]

please don't put me in that group neath, i know some arrogant males are like this in public....but get them on thereown and they act and think totally differently....just stags locking horns......where as if your comfortable with the opposite sex and have nothing to prove...like myself....there's no need to indulge in such bravado! 

[GucciGal]

hi neathgirl, my husband is a real gent and would never talk like that in front of anyone. He is the THE most perfect gent I've met so please don't lose heart. BUT saying that I do work with a couple of rights twits who are just vile and vilgar. I feel sorry for them, no decent girl would go near them! xx

[jno]

feel free to report the testosterone-fuelled Qs on this site - it's supposed to be a family site. Dealing with them in real life can be trickier.

[happy_face]

Hi neathgirl. This is by far not only a thing men does. Many women are like that too. I must admit if I've seen a gorgeous guy or a neat little behind I'm the first to share that with friends and colleagues. I can't see there being anything wrong in having a healthy sexual appetite and wanting to share. Obviously I know what you mean in the way of discussing these things. There are some people (again women included) who are rather gross about it. But I wouldn't just generalise to one group of sex as in my experience women can be just as bad as men.

[Romeo]

Hey, neathgirl. I may be a hunk and a macho man, but be assured I am if nothing else a gentleman. I would never press my advantage on a lady, nor try to make a girl do anything she didn't want to. Men who look on ladies as there to be merely used are, in my opinion, utter cads and common boors! I would take you on a romantic date, discuss cultured conversation over a candlelit meal, and run you home. If you wished to take it further, that would be entirely up to you, not me, and if you wished to be alone for the rest of the evening, I would respect that and leave, after leaving you a red rose.

[Scarlett]

These men must slowly learn that to behave like this is actually a huge turn OFF for women, and hence it is a catch 22 situation-they will have to learn NOT to do it if they want to attract women!

I do think a lot of it is machoism though. I am the only girl in a band of men, and I also teach big classes of music teachnology- all boys of 16/18, so I do see that whilst inside, men are just like us, when they get together they can turn into unbearable a***holes. But when they are leering about birds and sex, their defences are down, and it is even easier to put them in their place!!

[deesel]

It's brilliant to be a man

[OBonio]

It's great to get out and have a good old sesh with the lads. Do what you want, say what you want without having to worry about some lefty being offended. I used to do it a couple of times a month. It's therapeutic. Doing lad things is NOT a bad thing. If other people are offended by it, that's their problem. No offence is meant.

[neathgirl]

see i knew as soon as i posted it there would be ppl sayin not ALL men are the same - i do know that.  And just to state that i am not offended by anything anybody says i just think with the guys in my office it turns me sick how they bleat on about girls - being very graphical it just makes me think how sad and pathetic they are and god help their wives.  Yes i am aware that some women are like this too i am not completely naive to think it is just SOME men who behave like this.  I dont have a problem with people remarking on an attractiveness of a person but i do think that there is a difference in how men and women convey this to each other.  For instance, a guy in my office the other day remarking on the size of a girls breasts whilst he was on holiday with his wife and children "gor they were massive ones like off the telly she musta been a porn star for sure" and "she looked like the kinda girl who wud drop her chips to come" In essence it just gets on my goat that SOME men think bout women in this way, and whats even worse are the girls who fall for it everytime they must be desperados! Anyway, thank god im on venus and dont come from mars i muchly enjoy being female and wouldnt change it!   

[Ward-Minter]

well you seem a little forthright than when you answered on of my question. Lets forget that shall we?

 

Anyway the reason men think about sex a lot is because daytime TV, ironing, cooking, washing, child rearing and bad parking just aren't the done thing are they??????

[lizzierose]

"some lefty"? OBonio.

[Gandy]

In my office, where men are out numbered 5 to 1 it's the complete opposite. A gaggle of girls can behave in exactly the same way as the men you describe. You just get used to it. Remember, familiarity breeds contempt.

[OBonio]

Yes, "some lefty" lizzierose. I don't want to be accused of sexism now do I? ;o)

[mackydm]

hi neathgirl,

sorry you should feel this way about us guy's.most of us from time to time join in with these conversations.no offence is intended believe me.i for one absolutely adore women. the age, height, weight or size i find unimportant.what matters is that they are happy with being themselves, that's the biggest turn on there is.