Is My Mum Dramatic?

[Veil22]

Hi everyone and thanks for reading.
My mother never actually welcomed my gf and gave her a good feeling in my home. Were together now 2 years both 21. My gf tried to be friends with my mum...after one year she gave up. I also told her to because it only made her feel sad. My mum is acting like a child when my gf comes over the last 5 times. She laughes much louder at thing that werent even funny. She always tries to come between me and my gf. But she doednt even look or smile at my gf she acts like shes air. Whats wrong why is she acting like that...? Well i told her or asked her about that. And then she told me: your gf has no respect in my house. She comes and says hi really quiet...and then goes in your room and starts laughing and speaking real loud. I was just standing there like whaaatttt.....everyone is louder with bf/gf.
How silly is the reason she gave me that she doesnt like my gf?
What can i do to show her she is the one that doesnt respect me neither my gf!
Should u tell my gf she should just shout louder hi to my mum or is my mum just dramatic and angry that she's not in the focus?

[Sqad]

Your mother doesn't like your girlfriend...period.....it happens...
Do nothing and carry on as usual, as whatever you do, your mother will NEVER accept your girlfriend, as she may have good reasons for not being "homely " to her.

You will either break up with your girlfriend OR the relationship will continue without the blessing of mother.

My guess?..........the relationship between you and your girlfriend will come to an end.

[Marjoprydore]

Nobody is ever good enough for their child, be patient with her. When she sees you are serious she may learn to accept your gf. She will always be your mother, you will always be her child.

[Old_Geezer]

If she is being honest, if she feels disrespected then she feels disrespected. I don't think it useful to appoint blame. Either it'll pass as they get to know each other or it won't. But don't make a drama out of it.

[cassa333]

My MIL hated the very ground I walked on. (Not to my face) but she called me a gold digger, sloth, slutern, fat common criminal and thief. All because I had the temerity to go out with her son. He was 36 when we met lol.

She only decided to come to our wedding the day before and sat throught the whole thing with a face like thunder.

She didn't like me til the day she died but other than being a bit strange when we visited her I ignored it.

I would suggest that you don't leave them alone in the same room for more than five minutes simply because it will be really uncomfortable for both of them. If you mum starts bad mouthing her when she isn't there, defend your gf but don't get into arguments. She is your mum after all. Be positive about both mum and gf. Don't let either bad mouth the other and see how it goes.