Emotions

[fitforaking]

I'm overcome with emotions right now. I'm 28 and decided to move to Spain some time ago. Anyway the time is approaching for me to move, its by far the biggest move of my life to date and its only natural that i'll have emotions about it, but WOW! They are intense. I'm crying right now at the thought of leaving my mum, i dont want her to be lonely with out me, I care for her and love her so much, but this is a move that I must make, for my own progression in life. And she supports me fully. She's great, she tells me that obviously we will miss each other but with the power of the internet we can keep in touch and says that flights are cheap so she can visit every month if she wanted, and i know she looks forward to holidays in the sun :) I'm just so emotional, i dont like it. I want my emotions to go away. I know im doing the right thing and this move is going to be good for me, I'm just not used to having such strong emotions. I came here to air my feelings... I feel like im in love, i really strong feeling of love. God i'm so soppy lol... Sometimes i think im just a drama queen and like a good drama and cry, also im on my period - seems i only come on here when i have a problem or drama happening :) Anyway my advice to myself is to remain positive, onwards and upwards. New adventures and prospects are on the horizon. All these opportunities cause there own emotions and its natural what im going through. Thanks for listening x

[craft1948]

Go for it and enjoy. As you say it's very easy for friends and family to visit, in fact the spare room will probably be in constant use.
My first husband was offered a marvellous job in Australia and every time we saw his mother she used to burst into tears and lay on the guilt. Because of her we ended up not going......biggest mistake of my life.

[Mamyalynne]

This just proves you are human and love your Mum very much, it will be hard at first but with the wonderful support she is showing you things can only turn out well. Never try to hide your emotions they make you who you are after all, good luck for the future and keep in touch with us too.

Mamya

[fitforaking]

you guys are tops! Your right. I cant wait to move. Life is for living and making the most of... x i love this site, i'll keep you posted <3

[Mamyalynne]

Fare thee well as you travel and journey to pastures new, the heartache you have suffered makes you qualified for a free entry into better times and places.

[MarkRae]

You must absolutely go. Carpe diem, and all that. Just make sure that you and your Mum both have a PC with a webcam, and get Skype accounts - you'll be able to talk to each other "face-to-face", as it were, every day if you want to...

[Mamyalynne]

Mark is spot on, when my daughter moved to CZ I was lost, but Skype and Webcam were a godsend.

[mrs.chappie]

I know this is going to sound negative, but .... nothing in life is set in stone. Give it a go and if you really can't settle and don't like it, you can come back.

And your mum's right ..... keeping in touch nowadays is so far advanced from yesteryear. What a fab invention the webcam is. Make sure you're both on Skype (or similar). Sorry if I'm stating the obvious.

Live life to the full .... you only get one crack at it. Good luck with everything. x

[mrs.chappie]

^^^Sorry for repetition. There were only a couple of posts there when I started typing. x

[fitforaking]

All good, I appreciate your answers, now i must go to bed and rest this sleepy emotional head of mine :) Sending out love to you all, seems I have a lot to give :)

[Mamyalynne]

Night night ♥

[mrs.chappie]

Sleep well. x

[piggynose]

why are you going to spain, and where exactly are you going?

[4getmenot]

I couldnt do it, I know I would miss my family too much. My bro moved to america, never thought he'd do it, but I know he gets very homesick