I Think My Best Friend Trying To Make Me Fat! What Should I Do?

[Savhanna]

In about August,
I was telling my best friend about how I didn't eat at lunch everyday and how I felt like crap. He told me to eat so I wouldn't feel sick...he's been reminding me to eat lunch everyday since then and he Has been right. However, in the weeks that have gone by, at least once a week he's brought me something sweet and delicious to pretty much bribe me to eat. Like about the third week after all of that, he brought me a cupcake two days in a row. The following week, he brought me a muffin bigger than my hand! Whatever he brings me seems to get more and more fattening as the weeks go by, and he brings more each week too. A couple weekends after that, he was texting me to eat during the weekend. Well, I did, and that Sunday, I ate so much that I could barely move! It was then that I noticed my once small tummy was a bit bigger and softer! It's been several months, and he's still bringing me food every day! With my kind nature, I've not been able to refuse the food once! Well, plus he brings the tastiest (but most fattening) food, and my appetite has gotten MUCH bigger! Before this whole thing, I was about 115 pounds...Now I'm teetering on the 200 pound mark, at 193 pounds to be precise, and still growing. As much as I'd love to stop this, my appetite is so big now that I can't even control how much I eat anymore. Every time I eat, I become extremely greedy, eat everything I have, and then proceed to ask my friends or family members for anything they're not going to finish. I need to stop this but I can't, so I'll figure that out some other time...But I'm wondering if my best friend is purposefully trying to fatten me up, or if it's just coincidence and he doesn't realize it. What should I do? And please, no stupid answers that are insulting either. If you're going to be mean, don't give me an answer, because I don't want it. This is a legitimate question and issue that I'm having!

[Old_Geezer]

13 stone 11 pounds eh ? How tall are you ?

In any case what you eat is your responsibility. If you are hungry eat, when you are no longer hungry, stop.

I have no idea about your friend, maybe they are just being generous but in any case what you consume is your choice. And if you are having willpower issues you'll need to learn self control.

[smurfchops]

Your best friends isn't making you fat, he's not shoving food in your face. You are doing that. Only you can stop it.

[Connemmara]

Quare lot of crap you wrote about your own doing. Is your best friend force-feeding you. I have a lot of weight on but it is my own fault. Don't blame anybody only yourself.

[vodkancoke]

You can't blame your friend for what you put in your mouth and there is always the phrase "No Thank you" whenever they show up with a cupcake or a muffin.
As OG says, if you are hungry then eat, if you're not hungry then don't.

[society]

Are you two are related? -

http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/members/sheye20/

[VHG]

Is it April fools day?

[smurfchops]

society I thought the same thing ... similar post eh ?? But includes full stops and better grammar so probably not.

[Savhanna]

VHG, no, it is not April Fools' Day, this is a real issue I'm having and need help with!

[murraymints]

Just say no....thank you.....

[wildwood]

According to Mrs Brown, your friend is trying to turn you into a greenie. The more weight you are, the less water you need in a bath.

I'll get my coat now.

[rsvp]

A while back - folk were so busy living they didn't have time for rubbish like this

[B00]

Can I have his number?

[grasscarp]

Biggest load of rubbish I have ever read on here.

[Answerprancer]

'Yeah, but no but yeah but no but' springs to mind!

[vodkancoke]

Grasscarp....are you sure about that?? Have you seen who is back? lol ;)

[society]

I wish Mollykins would come back.

[grasscarp]

Vodka don't. That is a sad case of a lonely person looking for attention and getting it. Answerbank has become like a shelter for the bewildered!

[Savhanna]

Hey, jerks saying I'm just looking for attention, and this is fake, I don't WANT your responses! Whatever the hell you have to say, I don't want! Keep it to your selves! This is a real issue I have here, so I'm looking for a real answer!

[Mamyalynne]

Real answer...

'Thank you [insert friends name here] I do appreciate the gesture, but I am somewhat disconcerted with the amount of weight I am gaining.'

[Mojo-Jo-Jo]

Answerbank has become a shleter for the answer police if you ask me Grasscarp. How rude are you?
Stay out of it if you don't like it.
Who are you to determine who this person may or may not be?
This is the single biggest thing to get my back up on AB.
IT'S NOT YOUR SITE!
Okay and breathe....
Savhanna, I think you are only telling half of the story.
I wonder if you are a binge eater and dieter and you think starving yourself is the answer until your fiends worry about you.
Maybe, maybe not, but the only answer is to say no, thank them and remind them that that kind of food isn't going to help you lose weight.
You should finish by whipping out an apple and biting into it. ;)