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Hi All,
to continue with this post, confusion is now part of everday life. O.H. and I go to visit, and She points to our wedding photo of 45 years ago and says, " where are these two?" we try to explain that its us, but she says " no, not you, these two" and she is getting nasty, and now phones us 6 or more times a day. We got help from the mental health team in the early days, but once assessment was done, they seemed to fade away. She says she wants to go home to Her family, but all Her family ( brothers,sisters) are long gone, only nieces and nepwhews still alive etc. We are at a loss as to what to do next, we know she would be safer in a care home, but how to get her into one?? she can't stay with us as we are three miles from any shop and we are both at work all day. at least where she is there are wardens and the carers pop in for 15 mins twice a day. any one had similar issues? and was the memory loss better some days, almost back to normal, then totally gone, such as" how many children did i have?" etc. Worse part is when she says " am i going mad?"
thank you.
annie.