Autistic

[jennyjoan]

At the age of 40 could you be diagnosed with the above - not that we will ever know - just this guy cannot look after himself and is living in terrible conditions.

None of his siblings would believe it either as they would just say "Ach that's just him". But from observation over a few years I do believe he has it and I can't help him.

[Zacs-Master]

Yes, of course.
https://www.theguardian.com/society/2016/nov/19/autism-diagnosis-late-in-life-asperger-syndrome-john-harris

[barry1010]

Why do you think he is autistic? Many people with this condition live normal lives, working, looking after themselves, raise children.

[bednobs]

yes you can, but to what end?

[Redhelen72]

Perhaps he has mental health issues rather than autism.
Have you rang social services to say you are concerned about his welfare?

[sandyRoe]

He could be suffering from depression.

[Ringlet]

jennyjoan, I know from your previous posts that you live in Northern Ireland.
Below is an email address for you to contact the Adult Safeguarding team at Belfast Health Trust.
[email protected]
You should tell them what you have observed and why you are worried for the wellbeing of this man.
They will look into it and see if he needs help.
It certainly sounds as if he does. Well done for being a very good friend and citizen.
[email protected]

[jennyjoan]

well am just up after trying to get relief from knee to no avail but at least body got some rest.

thanks for your answers but regarding some scenarios of your posts it will be nigh on possible to help this guy - I don't know why I say it but I think he will come to a sorry end - I can't do anything if his siblings won't either. They are a bunch of guys that hide their heads in the sand.

I asked him the other night if he was depressed and he said he was depressed all his life. That's all I can say folks - this is a very complicated issue that I just can't interfere in.

[Redhelen72]

Depressed does not mean autistic though
Does he even want your help?

[jennyjoan]

He may not want it but by God he needs it

[pastafreak]

As said by others, many with autism function just as you or I. If you are able to chat with him, discuss the help that could be offered via the link ringlet provided. He may be open to such help.