Where shall I start. Have a fan by the bed, so that can go on and off throughout the night, clear your cupboards of all woolly jumpers and anything that looks to thick, put the coat into storage, arm yourself with those little fan things that can be picked up in the �1 shop, a packet of wet wipes, so you can wipe your face when no one is looking, a can on cold pepsi (even though you dont drink it anymore) just to place your wrist on it to cool you down, get rid of the thick duvet and buy a nice low tog one. On a serious note try Soya Milk, I used to take a herbal tablet called Confience, you can buy it at Holland & Barret. Read up on herbal remedies. I am sure you will find something that agrees wih you. We women have to bloody well suffer. Good Luck.